Every year, the youngster have prepared programme for the party. A man who has a conscience, surely will realise that the youth's are trying to do the best, we have to understand how laborious the preparation for Spring Festival party alright? But, do you know what the olds (老菩萨) said?
Well, my sister and friends become emcee, it could be good news, isn't? Unfortunately, because of some old folks that make no allowance for teenagers and in these situation, do you know it can be so upsetting and may cause them to feel annoyed? I believe that they will not come to Country Homes Buddhist Association again after scolded by the "老菩萨"!!! I don't know why the adult often like to complain and complain...Arghh!
Actually, I don't want comment anything that happen yesterday.But I feel unfair when being scolded by the old folks that didn't hold out one's hand's. Something happened to me yesterday, too.
As the saying goes, have an old family member,have a treasure (家有一老,如有一宝).But I don't think that the
olds//adults will lend us a helping hand? I didn't blame
anyone, but please don't get us in trouble!!
(感觉上大人正在大石砸小蟹，还说咱们不敬老，到底他们明不明白什么是敬老呀？老就代表有智慧，而不是皱纹多少的"老"。那照理来说，大人应该是会保护幼小的嘛，怎么会去责骂青少年，还说我们准备的节目差劲？自己又不做，我们做了得到的就是责怪。况且这些人找错对象投诉了，他们到底有没有想过说这些话的严重性？这会把青少年们赶回家，再也不来佛教会的原因呐，你们说是吗？那下次找谁当义工？这些所谓的大人，要义工时就不来帮忙，只会来投诉投诉！就只会把青少年赶回家！我们来当义工，当然希望做得好呀，哪能说差呢？你认为差，别人可不认为呀，这样去伤青少年们的心太不像话了。这都怪我们宗旨不稳，结果被施师兄抢麦克风唱歌而导致青少年们没了个“大合唱“，当遇到这些事，我也很惊讶。当我要去阻止，施师兄已唱了很多歌。 他知道他这么做会导致时间紧促，时间大乱吗？还说我们差，那大人呢？所谓的老菩萨就是“修行“的意思，可怎么还会去说别人做的节目差，干扰别人的节目编排呢？就算做错了也不应该在大众面前骂青少年呀~还有，在佛教会里，每次将我们的节目与他人比较，可他们又明白每个地方的观众，文化都差别很大吗？在别的道场里，我们见到的观众是会聆听司仪说话的，可我们这儿司仪说话观众竟然还贸然不知！还各有各讲，他们像观众吗？他们知道观众是什么意思吗？观众就是用心去看的意思，而不是去各说各的，那我想请问下，他们有尊重场合吗？那他们凭什么说我们差了？这还不伤透少年们的心呐~当然这不是说我，因为我以前也遇过类似的问题，所以老菩萨没找我麻烦。 有时候真得很奇怪，我们办活动办得High，就说咱们不正经；我们办活动时候正经，他们又说闷，没点新意，所以并没有好差的，只是见仁见智而已。真希望青少年们能够明白这道理: 有时候你做的多么好，还是批评多于称赞，所以真希望他们别介意，能够再努力，别因此而从此不来佛教会，那就太可惜了!正所谓：经一事，长一智哦~）
Moreover, they always said we didn't respect for the aged.But, do they know the real meaning of "respect"? I just knowa person must show them respect by listening to emcee carefully and not talking at the back. Please,if you don't show people respect, it is unlikely they will respect you!So,I use a new way to attract their attention,that's scold emceeonly (have communicate before), but I also got complain haha!Actually,only I know the reason, nobody will understand the meaning of behind...
It's okay because it's a growth process for everyone including me yeahh~It can make us become more stronger!Gambateh!!On the other hand, now we have resolution way already!^^
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